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		<title>How Does a Divorce Affect an Estate Plan?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Austin Aimone]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2026 16:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A divorce changes an estate plan in two stages, and the first stage carries more risk. From the day a case is filed in the New York Supreme Court until a judge signs the final judgment, you are still legally married. Your spouse may still inherit from you and may still be the person a hospital calls.</p>
<p>Abelaj Law, PC, prepares <a href="https://www.abelajlaw.com/estate-planning/">estate planning</a> documents for both stages, and our NYC estate planning lawyer for divorcees usually begins with the papers you can change right now.</p>
<h2>Why Is a Pending Divorce the Riskiest Time for Your Estate Plan?</h2>
<p>A contested divorce in New York can last many months, and some run for years. If you die or become unable to make decisions during that stretch, the law treats your spouse like any other husband or wife. Living apart does not change that.</p>
<p>New York also gives a surviving spouse a right called the elective share. It lets your spouse claim $50,000 or one-third of your estate, whichever is greater, or the entire estate if it is worth less than $50,000. This is the case even if your will leaves everything to your children. The claim generally ends only with a prenuptial agreement, a signed waiver, or a final divorce.</p>
<h2>What Should You Update Before and After a New York Divorce?</h2>
<p>The right steps depend on where your case stands. If you are thinking about filing or your case is open, start with these:</p>
<ul>
<li>Sign a new health care proxy</li>
<li>Sign a new power of attorney</li>
<li>Sign an interim will that limits your spouse to the elective share</li>
</ul>
<p>If your current proxy names your spouse, or you have no proxy, your spouse will likely make your medical decisions if you cannot. If your current power of attorney names your spouse, they keep control of your finances too.</p>
<p>Once the judge signs the divorce judgment, a second round of updates comes due:</p>
<ul>
<li>Rewrite your will and trusts to remove your former spouse</li>
<li>File new beneficiary forms for your 401(k), IRAs, and life insurance</li>
<li>Name a guardian for your minor children, and a guardian or trustee for their property, in your new will</li>
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<p>Banks and plan administrators usually pay whoever&#8217;s name is on the form. Send them new forms even if you think the law has already fixed the problem.</p>
<h2>Who Manages a Minor Child&#8217;s Inheritance After a Divorce in New York?</h2>
<p>Naming your children as beneficiaries does not keep your former spouse away from the money. A child under 18 cannot manage an inheritance, so the Surrogate&#8217;s Court appoints a guardian for the property. The surviving parent is often the person the court picks.</p>
<p>A trust, sometimes called a bloodline trust, allows you to make that choice yourself. You name a trustee, such as a sibling, a close friend, or a bank, to manage the money for your child&#8217;s health, schooling, and support.</p>
<p>You can release it in stages, part at 25 and the rest at 30, so nothing arrives in one lump at 18. Trust assets are also easier to keep separate if your grown child later divorces. Our attorney can add these terms to your will or a living trust.</p>
<h2>What Happens to a Manhattan Condo or Brooklyn Brownstone You Own Together?</h2>
<p>Most married couples in New York own their home as tenants by the entirety. The survivor takes the whole property when one spouse dies, no matter what either will says. If you die before the divorce is final, your spouse gets the entire condo or brownstone.</p>
<p>Neither spouse can undo that form of ownership alone. With both signatures on a new deed, the two of you can become tenants in common, which lets each person leave a half-share by will. Our divorce estate planning attorney works with the lawyer handling your divorce, so a change like that fits the settlement and the court&#8217;s orders.</p>
<h2>Changing a Will During a Pending Divorce in NY</h2>
<p>Many people believe they cannot change any paperwork once a divorce is filed. That is only partly true. The filing triggers automatic orders under <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/laws/DOM/236" target="_blank" rel="noopener">New York Domestic Relations Law § 236</a>. Without a court order or a written agreement, those orders stop you from:</p>
<ul>
<li>Selling or giving away property</li>
<li>Pulling money out of retirement accounts</li>
<li>Dropping your spouse from health insurance</li>
</ul>
<p>The same orders bar you from switching the beneficiary on an existing life insurance policy. They say nothing about wills, health care proxies, or powers of attorney. That means changing a power of attorney while a divorce is pending in New York is usually allowed, and so is signing a new will.</p>
<h2>Does a Divorce Decree Automatically Change Beneficiaries in NY?</h2>
<p>Partly, and only once the divorce is final. Under <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/laws/EPT/5-1.4" target="_blank" rel="noopener">New York Estates, Powers and Trusts Law § 5-1.4</a>, a final divorce cancels most gifts and roles you gave your former spouse, including wills, revocable trusts, life insurance and retirement beneficiary forms, and appointments as executor or agent.</p>
<p>The rule has gaps. It does nothing while your case is pending, and federal law can override it for workplace retirement plans. Surrogate&#8217;s Courts in Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens carry heavy caseloads, so a fight over an outdated will can keep money tied up for a long time.</p>
<h2>What Happens to a Joint Revocable Trust After a New York Divorce?</h2>
<p>A joint trust holds property from both of you, so the automatic cut-off for a former spouse does not finish the job. The trust usually has to be divided and closed, or rewritten, as part of the settlement.</p>
<h2>Remarriage After a New York Divorce and Your Estate Plan</h2>
<p>Marriage does not cancel an existing will in New York, but a new spouse gains inheritance rights the day you marry. Before the wedding, ask our attorney to review:</p>
<ul>
<li>A prenuptial agreement that waives the elective share</li>
<li>Gifts set aside for children from your first marriage</li>
<li>Beneficiary forms that still name old choices</li>
</ul>
<p>Remarrying your former spouse works differently. It generally brings back the will and beneficiary terms that your divorce canceled.</p>
<h2>Update Your Estate Plan Before Your New York Divorce Is Final</h2>
<p>Abelaj Law is a boutique firm in New York City, and our experienced NYC estate planning lawyer for divorcees can tell you which papers to change first and which changes must wait for the final judgment. Request <a href="https://www.abelajlaw.com/contact/">more information or a consultation online</a> before your next court date.</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jennifer Abelaj]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2026 21:34:21 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Estate planning is something that everyone should take the time to do. However, because it is not very pleasant to think about one’s eventual demise, most people either avoid the task altogether or create an estate plan and then try to forget about it. Unfortunately, there are certain life events that require people to update or completely rewrite their estate plans. Divorce is one of those life events. Married people typically leave most, if not all, of their estates to their spouses. However, this is likely not what they want after a divorce. Whether you are only considering divorce, divorcing, or recently divorced, it may be time to reevaluate your estate plan. If you have questions about estate planning and divorce, consider contacting a skilled New York estate planning attorney at Jennifer V. Abelaj Law Firm by calling 212-328-9568 to learn more about your options.</p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Estate Planning Documents To Update</h2>
<p>When thinking about estate planning, most people immediately think of a Last Will and Testament (will). A will may be a central component of an estate plan, but there are many other documents that should also be included. When updating an estate plan due to divorce, make sure to think about your:</p>
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<li><strong>Wills</strong>—People may want to change bequests, the executor, guardianship for minor children, or other details after a divorce. In many cases, it can be easier to start fresh with a new will than to try to update an existing one</li>
<li><strong>Power of attorney—</strong>Most people do not want a former spouse to have power of attorney over any part of their lives. Therefore, after divorce, a new power of attorney can be executed naming an adult child, sibling, parent, or other trusted person. There may also be more than one power of attorney, including durable, medical, and financial</li>
<li><strong>Health care proxy—</strong>Many people authorize a health care proxy to make health care decisions on their behalf if they are unable to make those decisions themselves. Married couples often authorize each other as healthcare proxies. However, most people would prefer to authorize another trusted person for that position after a divorce</li>
<li><strong>Revocable trusts</strong>—If a revocable trust is part of a person’s estate plan, he or she may want to revisit estate planning after divorce. Most people remove their former spouse, as well as any of the former spouse’s relatives, from the revocable trust</li>
<li>Beneficiaries—Most estate plans include a variety of life insurance policies, retirement accounts, pensions, pay-on-death and transfer-on-death accounts, and more that have designated beneficiaries. These accounts do not pass through the will to be given to heirs but are, instead, given directly to the beneficiary named on the policy or account and should, therefore, be updated after a divorce</li>
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<p>Most estate planning documents can be updated before the divorce is final. However, some documents may need to wait until the divorce is final unless permission from the spouse is given.</p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Does Divorce Invalidate a Will?</h2>
<p>In New York, divorce does not invalidate a will. However, according to the<span> </span><a href="https://www.nassaubar.org/">Nassau County Bar Association</a>, divorce or legal separation will revoke the revocable dispositions of property made to a former spouse. This includes but is not limited to dispositions in a will and designations as beneficiaries on bank accounts, life insurance policies, pensions, and/or revocable trusts. Any appointments of the former spouse, such as executor, trustee, guardian, health care agent, or attorney-in-fact, are also revoked. The key factor is that the instrument, or document, must be revocable, which means that if a person could have revoked it during life, he or she would have. When one spouse passes away, any existing documents that were revoked due to the divorce are treated as though the former spouse pre-deceased him or her. The alternate executor would be assigned the task of probating the will, and assets would transfer to the designated alternate beneficiaries.</p>
<p>Bequests and appointments, such as guardianship, to anyone other than the former spouse, will remain valid before, during, and after a divorce. The revocation applies only to the former spouse. Therefore, if your current estate plan leaves assets to your former spouse’s parents, children from a previous relationship, siblings, or others, you will need to update your estate plan if you wish to remove these beneficiaries.</p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Can a Divorced Spouse Inherit?</h2>
<p>There is a general rule of revocation that prevents a divorced spouse from inheriting after his or her former spouse passes away. However, there are two exceptions to this general rule, including:</p>
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<li>A legal order to provide</li>
<li>A deliberate choice to include the divorced spouse</li>
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<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>A Legal Order To Provide</strong></h3>
<p>In some cases, a divorce decree or legal separation agreement will require that certain benefits be maintained for a former spouse. Any legal order that requires providing for a former spouse would supersede the law that typically prevents a divorced spouse from inheriting. If you have a legal order that requires you to provide certain benefits to a former spouse, a skilled estate planning lawyer at the Jennifer V. Abelaj Law Firm may be able to help you with estate planning and divorce questions to ensure that you comply with the order.</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>A Deliberate Choice To Include the Divorced Spouse</strong></h3>
<p>Some divorcing couples remain on friendly terms and, therefore, may choose to include their former spouses in their wills or as beneficiaries for life insurance policies, retirement accounts, or trusts after the divorce is final. In these situations, the former spouses may want to create new documents after the divorce with updated dates so that the intent to include the former spouse is clear.</p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What If There Is No Will?</h2>
<p>In the event that someone passes away without a will and there is a final judgment of divorce, the divorced spouse has forfeited any rights to inherit or act as administrator of the estate. However, not having a will may complicate matters for the deceased’s heirs. Therefore, everyone should have at least a basic estate plan that includes a will.</p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Happens If You Die Before the Divorce Is Final?</h2>
<p>Once a divorce is final, any provisions in the will that specifically benefit the former spouse are voided. If one spouse dies before the divorce is made final, however, the situation is slightly different. First, before the divorce is final, one spouse cannot completely disinherit the other. According to the<span> </span>New York estates, powers, and trust law, a surviving spouse is given what is called an “elective share.” This is an automatic right to a certain portion of the estate. However, this “right of election” or elective share can be eliminated using a separation agreement.</p>
<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Contact an Estate Planning Attorney for Help With Estate Planning and Divorce</h2>
<p>Estate planning and divorce can be complex. Even in a situation where both spouses agree on every point, a divorce is a major change that requires many additional changes. If you and your spouse are divorcing and you are ready to update your estate plan, consider contacting a knowledgeable estate planning attorney at the Jennifer V. Abelaj Law Firm by calling 212-328-9568 to schedule a consultation and review your options for creating a new or updated estate plan after divorce.</p></div>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jennifer Abelaj]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2026 00:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>If you are a New York State resident and who has obtained medical care to expand your family via assisted reproductive technology, you should be aware of the revision of New York State’s Equal Rights Amendment. The Amendment expands civil rights for purposes of reproductive healthcare, but leaves ambiguity as to whether stored genetic material is covered under the law.</p>
<p>The recent National election results may also create uncertainty on your individual bodily autonomy and privacy in managing your reproductive healthcare.  Without getting into Constitutional law, this article provides insight on how to plan for your genetic material following the new State Civil Rights law and existing statue in New York State.  If you need assistance on estate planning for your genetic material, please contact an experienced attorney at Abelaj Law, P.C. at 212-328-9568.</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">New York State Expands Civil Rights to Include Reproductive Healthcare, but Does Not Address Stored Embryos, Oocytes</h3>
<p>On November 5, 2024, New York State voters approved the<span> </span><a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/newsroom/articles/2024/brad-hoylman-sigal/proposal-1-equal-rights-amendment">Equal Rights Act</a>, which expands the definition of individual civil rights within the state to include, in part, “pregnancy, pregnancy outcomes, and reproductive healthcare and autonomy.”  Individuals cannot be discriminated against based on these, and other, characteristics.  It’s important to note that the language does not provide clear guidance on how it applies to resulting genetic material.</p>
<p>Although the text appears to be clear, the interpretation of what is considered “reproductive healthcare and autonomy” will be determined by the Courts as cases arise to clarify scope and meaning.  In order to appreciate the uncertainty, it might be useful to describe ART and the resulting genetic material.</p>
<p><strong>Genetic Material Resulting from Assisted Reproductive Technology</strong></p>
<p>According to the<span> </span><a href="https://www.hhs.gov/about/news/2024/03/13/fact-sheet-in-vitro-fertilization-ivf-use-across-united-states.html">Department of Health and Human Services</a>, in 2021, approximately 2.3% of all infants born in the United States were conceived through the use of ART, which includes in-vitro fertilization (IVF) or intra-uterine insemination (IUI).  According to DHS, “the reasons that cause an individual to obtain medical assistance for conception are numerous, including age, health conditions, and for couples who are same sex or individuals without a partner and cannot otherwise conceive.  In addition, some couples experience unexplained infertility where tests reveal no obvious causes of infertility.”  Among the states with the highest rates of ART are New York and New Jersey. </p>
<p>ART requires a patient to be under the care of a reproductive endocrinologist or medical facility.  ART allows a patient to plan and preserve the opportunity to have a child at a later time.  The process frequently includes specialist consultations, costly prescription medications, and medical procedures, which are not always covered by insurance, for the important goal of obtaining eggs, sperm or reproductive tissue for purposes of conceiving.  A patient may require more than one round (or attempt) of ART before they are able to conceive.  One round of ART may result in genetic material that is not initially used but is instead preserved for later use.</p>
<p>The<span> </span><a href="https://www.fda.gov/vaccines-blood-biologics/safety-availability-biologics/what-you-should-know-reproductive-tissue-donation">Food and Drug Administration</a><span> </span>regulates human reproductive tissue and governs disposition of<span> </span><em>donated</em><span> </span>genetic material.  It does not, however, govern the disposition of genetic material created by the intended parent or genetic material purchased by a potential parent. </p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Rights to Genetic Material After Death Based on Contract Law</h3>
<p>Since 2014, New York State law provides a framework on the disposition of genetic material resulting from IVF and the rights of a child born after the death of an intended parent by the use of ART.   <a href="http://nys%20open%20legislation%20%7C%20nysenate.gov/">Section 4-1.3(j) of the Estates, Powers and Trusts Law</a><span> </span>provides that disposition of genetic material is “subject exclusively to the provisions of this section and to any valid and binding contractual agreement between such person and the facility providing storage of the genetic material and may not be the subject of a disposition in an instrument created by the person providing such material or any other person.”</p>
<p>To simplify, New York State’s position is that disposition of genetic material is a private matter that is governed by a contract between the “owner” of the genetic material and the facility storing the genetic material.  For this reason, it is critical that if you execute the appropriate documents with your storage facility on how to dispose of your genetic material following your death.</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Take Charge by Reviewing Your Written Contract and Alerting Your Estate Fiduciaries</h3>
<p>Ensuring that your genetic material is disposed of according to your wishes requires that you review the written agreement you signed with the storage facility.  If you are unsure of what you initially requested or would like to make a change, contact the storage facility directly.</p>
<p>If you are looking to dispose of your genetic material prior to your death, you must contact the storage facility.  Be prepared for a potentially lengthy delay between your request to dispose of, or destroy, your genetic material and the time when it is actually completed.  The process usually requires multiple reviews by various doctors and clinicians at the storage facility which may result in a six-month wait before your request is finalized. In order to ensure that your written agreement is honored at your death, consider including a provision in your will that refers to your remaining genetic material.  Ensuring that your wishes are honored requires that your fiduciary be aware that you have provided written instructions.</p>
<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Contact Us for Assistance</h3>
<p>At<span> </span><a href="https://www.abelajlaw.com/" data-type="page" data-id="248">Abelaj Law, PC</a>, we are committed to assisting individuals and families with all of their estate planning legal needs so they can focus on their family and health priorities. Contact our experienced legal team today at 212-328-9568 for a free introductory call to learn more.</p></div>
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